For you all to be more elegant, "experiencing 'exaltation' in your heart" is very much effective and powerful.
What you really need for your elegance is not disjecta membra of shallow knowledge at all. Essentially speaking, you need to experience a lot of beautiful time to be exalted for the sake of the realization of elegance.
For instance, listening to the opera is "very effective" for you to be exalted. You shall be mentally and upon occasion spiritually exalted through listening to the opera.
Artistically speaking, red wine, cheese, olive and bread are a constellation of seasoned tastes for the sake of the experience of exaltation in listening to the opera. The wise radiantly understand that it is absolutely necessary for them to prepare necessary seasoned tastes to be mentally and spiritually exalted in their heart in the process to listen to it.
Conversely, the poor unfortunately don't understand the importance of above-mentioned preparation in listening to it.